Thoughts??

So earlier I asked my husband to take our rainbow vacuum upstairs so I can vacuum. (I ultimately could have done it but I didn’t want to strain myself) He did it but it turned into a argument that he should not have to touch household items (empty the dishwasher, etc., or pretty much clean up after himself) due to the fact that he pays all the bills. Thoughts?

Background info: he’s a truck driver ( he’s gone 4-5 days out the week) I work 40 hours a week, I take care of the house, pay his personal truck payment, pay for his health insurance, my student loans, & buy groceries or whatever else is needed.