Am I The Problem?

My boyfriend always does stuff to annoy me. For example, I asked him to turn down his iPad because I was trying to watch a tv show, and he turned it all the way up and kept turning it down one volume and kept asking “is this okay, is this okay” trying to get a reaction out of me. And I’m not ashamed to say, i get very anxious when people repeatedly say the same thing over and over, itsmy biggest pet peeve and I’ve told my bf this and he continues to do it. And now I was like you know I’m going to go somewhere else and he then proceeded to call me a baby and say that it was my fault that the argument started. Yes, I can be irrational and freak out over little things at times, but he knows what my triggers are and continues to do them. Am I just too over dramatic or is my bf in the wrong?