Earring got sucked through the hole?

I wrote about this yesterday on here but this morning it's gotten worse. On Saturday my piercing was a little irritated but I didn't think much about it because I recently wore cheap metal in my bottom hole Then on Sunday my second hole swelled up too much to take my earring out and now it's too painful to even try.

Disclaimer: I've had my second hole pierced for over two years and haven't used any metal in this hole that irritates my ear

If you look at the second hole you get even see the front of the earring (it's a little silver ball). I don't even know if it's possible to get sucked in or is this all just because of the swelling? I've been putting ice on it and I've taken some Advil but the swelling won't go down. My mom told me to put some hydrogen peroxide on it so I'll try that.

My roommate said this happened to her and she just pulled the piercing out from the back. So now I'm afraid that I'm gonna have to try to pull my earring out from the back which is gonna hurt like a bitch and i don't want to do cause it hurts with the slightest touch.

What's going on? Help me plsss