Tell me what you think (SCREENSHOTS)

So my boyfriend and I are supposed to be talking the ASVAB soon and he messages me asking if we are going to study tonight. He mentions we should play basketball 🙄 I don’t play basketball. When he says “we will play basketball” he means im going to make my gf wait for 3 hours while I play basketball. Anyways, I told him it’s up to him because he’s a 21 year old man and I’m not about to sit here and tell him to something with his life. I’m not even tryna plan to join the military! I’m doing it with him so he can do something ! Anyways he claims that I’m not being encouraging enough and I’m just like ... ummmm okay??? We had our minds set on studying and when you suggest other things he’s expecting me to fight him and say no this is not what we should do? I’m kind of irritated because I wasn’t even tryna start an argument.