How can I tell my SO that he's gaining weight nicely?

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I don't want to hurt his feelings, he's really self conscious already and he's been concerned about his weight for awhile. I never thought he was bigger until recently. He's put on a lot of weight and his habits are really unhealthy. His heart has been hurting and he's also in the entertainment industry so I don't want people to say things to him that will hurt his feelings. I've tried encouraging him to come workout with me, I've tried meal prepping... idk what to do

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Damn u gettin thicc ma

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I’d say work out and change your diet together?
My parents do that but its also easier because they both have goals in terms of weight. I’m not sure if you have any goals or you could just say you want to change to a healthier lifestyle?

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Maybe instead of asking him to “work out” ask him to maybe go for a nice walk with you or if you have dogs, take them for a walk. Suggest going swimming or doing other outdoor things versus just going to the gym

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I dont know that there is really anything that can be said that will not come across wrong in that situation. I used to sing professionally and went through years of people criticizing my looks. My parents even did but tried to do it in a way that was helpful but honestly it wasn't something I couldn't see and it only hurt to hear how obvious it was to every one else. I would maybe try having a discussion about getting healthy together and see how receptive he is to the conversation. If he gets defensive or doesn't seem to understand maybe back off. He won't change unless he's in the proper mind set. Good luck hun! Hope it all works out and he can better his habits.

How can I tell my SO that he's gaining weight nicely?

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