some encouragement

Hi Ladies. I'm 43, TTC for 2 years with no miscarriage, never being pregnant b4. I had all test done, and my numbers look good for a woman my age. My SO is 52 and had 4 other childs. I read in here so many wonderful stories abt women my age and older having babies, still 98% of the time they had kids earlier in her lives. are there any good amount of women getting pregnant with their first at this age or older?? or is it just too late for me. I take all my vitamins, track my ovulation with opk, have sex when I need to and more...lol. I know some women take longer than others to get pregnant, the problem here is I have no time to wait, and no money for an alternative option.