Anal tips !!!?

Y’all me and my boyfriend tried to do anal. I was pregnant when we tried it for the first time so I don’t know if my booty was extra sensitive or what BUT now that i’m not pregnant we wanna try it again ..... how do y’all make it feel more pleasing? a whole lotta lube? or what !? give ya girl some tips lol I felt lame as hell not being able to even take it .... because I really wanted to try it ☹️