🚨 concerned; anyone who can relate🚨 STM - c section specifically ; 20 month age gap between siblings

I’m concerned with my ability to care for my 20 month old when my son arrives in September.

I’m having a repeat c section; all the kids rooms are upstairs; my husband travels 3-4 days a week.

My daughter weighs about 25 lbs - she walks but isn’t good with stairs. I’m not suppose to lift something as heavy as her (diaper changes; bath time; putting in the car; etc).

How did y’all manage? I’ll have limited help for about the first week and after that it’s just me. 🤔