So my boyfriend had ordered some sex toys for us from Adam and <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">Eve</a>. They come in the mail a few days ago and in the package there’s an assortment of toys. Well a while ago we had both made the decision that there would be no “pocket pussies” or dildos. Turns out he had ordered one for himself. Not really a big deal because he said he got a dildo for me. We both still live with our parents so he sent the package to a friend’s house instead. A little background of this friend : she has been friends with him for years. She tried to have sex with him in the past but apparently “she doesn’t ask anymore”. She also has no problem with being a home wrecker and cheating in her relationships. Back to the story. He comes over tonight and we are just hanging out outside talking about this package and then he says that because the package was sent to her house she stole my dildo. Also he says he has talked to her about what he should get. Now correct me if I’m wrong but a man should never get other people involved in our sex life. The fact that he has talked to her about it makes me feel so disrespected. Yes I have told him my feelings and all he says is “ what do you want me to do? Ask for it back?” Yes I want you to ask for it back then through it in the trash. Call me petty and whatnot but she has no right to go through our things and take what she wanted. He doesn’t understand my frustrations. So tell me. Am I over reacting or are my feelings justified.

Ps: he also thinks it’s okay because he got me a vibrator. Like no. You buying me vibrator doesn’t make it okay for you to be giving sex toys to a girl who wants to have sex with you.

Pss: also I would never tell him who he can and cannot hang out with but where do I draw the line with her? They’ve been friends since junior high.