How to react

Everybody keep on saying I'm greedy for not letting them in the hospital to see or hold my child only one who was supported!! I even told them why. last year I had a miscarriage and even my sister and other family member went on saying that's what happens , or you always gonna have a handicapped child but now I have a healthy one and I'm getting called greedy by the people who talked dirty about my last child and to also add even my mother!!