military

ladies, how do you handle your boyfriends / husbands being gone in the military? i'm still in high school & the guy i'm kinda seeing (but not officially dating) is in the marines. i have trust issues & need reassurance that he wants to be w me 😕 i overthink things and question things and it's harder since our relationship is complicated. he's been at basic all summer & communicating was hard since we could only write letters and the mail was slowww there. will it get easier?