Waiting waiting waiting for my cycle to be regular

Most days I'm ok with AF still not showing up, but every now and then I just get frustrated and sad. There's nothing I can do but wait and try hard not to stress. And I guess it's "normal" for your body to take some time after the pill to adjust, but every time I go it's nothing. I've had cramps, and nothing. Sigh... Anyone else out there with no AF in sight? No need to take tests? No possible ov date on the horizon?