Jeeeeeez

So my boyfriend (who’s not officially my boyfriend but I refer to him as that) has been acting super weird lately. He doesn’t like getting close to people, I’m the only person he’s gotten close to. He says he gets into this random urge feeling of going MIA on everyone, including me, even when things are going good and he’s happy. Right now he’s going through an urge like that, especially because he’s having personal problems, so he’s been a little weirder than usual.

I called him a bit ago to see if maybe I could get him to talk it out but he was just like “what do you want?” And then he said “I’m still trying to figure all this out so I can’t right now” and hung up. Like what the fuck I’m just trying to make you feel better man! He loves me and we’ve been great recently, haven’t even argued in monthsss, but there’s a been of tension because last night he brought up everything about him feeling like he wants to go MIA and shit. He basically feels like ghosting me sometimes but he says he doesn’t because he loves me and doesn’t wanna lose me. I just don’t really know what to do?? At times I feel like I should just tell him it’s okay to leave but I know I wouldn’t be able to deal with that emotionally.