Random rant

I don’t like being rude and I enjoy this group chat app for pregnant women but sometimes I notice when I or other people ask questions some women wana be smart asses about it or be simply rude when they comment I’m a positive person and I try to give the best advice so why can’t other people do it I recently posted a picture of my baby’s ultrasound yes pointing to hair and asked if he was bald because my friend said he was based on the amount of hair and women litterly bashed me for asking for more opinions some where like was does it matter and blah blah blah it doesn’t but does that really answer my question makes me want to just delete this app because I hate arguing