Putting my child in daycare. The struggle!

Mommas that have had to put their littles into daycare, how did you cope? How did your little one do and how do they do now? How long did it take to adjust? We are on day three and my child has had a very rough day. To the point she doesn’t want to eat food and has only wanted to stay latched. Last night she didn’t let go. I’m in pain. Emotionally and physically. She’s not happy either. I know it’s just the beginning but I want this to work and I just don’t think it will.

On top of everything we’ve been going through here. My husbands horrible new job and the hrs and ugh. Idk. He left his old job to be able to afford daycare which is crazy expensive but now I’m thinking of possibly pulling her out of it. Strong possibility if things don’t let up. My worry is intense and thinking of asking our aunt to watch her like she did from dec-may. Man being a teacher is hard with a baby because then she has to regrow trust and friendship with new people. Also she didn’t want to take a bottle at all. The first time using a bottle since may. This is just stressing me out.

What would you do?