Advice

Ok so I’m almost 37 weeks and I’m borderline pre-eclampsia

I nicely asked my parents to stop with countdowns and posting of things they want to get for my child because honestly, the constant posting is stressing me out. (I have anxiety disorder so lots of things bother me that shouldn’t). I mentioned that I’m borderline pre-eclampsia so they would know it’s nothing to do with them being excited it’s more about mine and my child’s wellbeing at this point

My stepdad completely understood.

My mom took over 24 hours to respond and only after she tagged my husband and myself in another baby related thing on Facebook that I had to ask her to stop posting.

I posted her response below. I never told them they couldn’t be excited. I’m glad they’re excited, but I loathe being guilt tripped about my health.

Granted I believe I should have said something earlier, but my BP and everything else didn’t come to light until my 36 week check up

I didn’t respond to her because I would have said some not so nice things and honestly, it’s not worth me stressing over.

I’m not sure I did the right thing but I have no idea how to even react to my moms reaction

Update my mom still doesn’t get. Still is making this all about her and I don’t even know what to do