I don’t want to leave him....

I’ve been with my partner for 13 years and last 2 years he has little respect for me! In the last year it’s really started to get me down, I’m plus size and he’s called me Mr Blobby one occasion. He speaks to me like I’m nothing, he pretends like he can’t hear me. He’s lazy, doesn’t want to help me, I’m registered disabled die to problems with the birth of my last baby., so he’s registered as my carer, but doesn’t actually want to help. I can’t vent to anyone as I feel like my parents make excuses for him. We have 3 children, and I don’t want them to think it’s okay to treat someone the way he does.

I just want to be respected and appreciated,

It’s not hard and love is a free emotion. I don’t want to wait another 13 years and Wish I’d left years ago.

I don’t know what to do, and it’s not a light decision but it’s not fair to be in a bad relationship. 😢