Advice? New guy... no effort.

I’m seeing this new guy.

He keeps making promises and then breaking them with shitty excuses... I’m a big believer in don’t make promises you can’t keep...

He’ll ignore me all day and only message me when he’s horny at night.. it makes me feel worthless.

He calls me sexy, not beautiful or gorgeous, it’s always about sex for him. I don’t think he’s in the right place.. he doesn’t want me for the right things.

We’ve not been together long at all, about a month, and so if he’s putting in this lack of effort now then, what would it be down the line..

I respect he can be busy, but it’s the fact that plans with his mates or just going out replaces spending any time with me, I’m all for spending time with mates, it’s vital as is family. I’m very good for “me time” and give him his space. He’ll be like “I’ll come stay with you” and then that day when I ask “when he’s coming” he goes, ah “I’m so sorry, I’m going to a party”.

I know my worth. Im worth more than someone who doesn’t seem me more important than every party.

Just need advice, he always says girls always leave me, no one stays.

It makes me feel like I want to change that, but if he’s not putting in his 50% then... I don’t know what to do..

UPDATE

I left that day and he didn’t care one bit, thank you for all the support 💗