Ladies does your husband go with you?

Mine went to the first ultrasound and that was it. Never another appt after that.

I’ve even rescheduled appts so he could go with me and then always at the last moment tells me he doesn’t want to go.

He wouldn’t go with me to the baby shower even though he told me a month before that he would.. he even took the day off. Then decided he would rather stay home and play video games all day like he always does. (It wasn’t a frilly shower more like a BBQ. Other males were there)

He one of the most unreliable people I’ve ever met. I always tease him that he’s going to miss me going into labor so he can stay at home and play world of Warcraft.

He went out and bought me a computer so I can play wow with him because he have nothing else in common. So I’ve been trying to play it but he won’t even play with me so now we just sit next to each other in silence playing our separate games.

If I don’t play for a day he gets sulky and says he feel like he forced me into playing a game. And that he wasted money on me.

Anytime he sees a far person he talks about how disgusting they are and says if I ever get that fat just kill me.

I’m almost 200lbs right now being 8 months pregnant and he makes comments about it a lot that don’t make me feel very good. He used to tell me I didn’t dress girly enough so today I wore cute shorts and a cute shirt and all he said was that I need to start shaving above my knees because he can see hair on my legs.

I mentioned my friend was getting to heavy to go riding on trails and she was really upset about it and he said maybe she shouldn’t be such a whale then.

I honesty don’t know what to do. I know it paints him in a bad light. But he does have redeemable qualities. It’s just getting hard to overlook how lazy and unhelpful. Flaky. He won’t do anything for himself I’m going to end up raising two children.