Am I bitch or is he a narcissist ?

My boyfriend told me he ABSOLUTELY does NOT want this baby and I’m “forcing him” no to have it. I even asked him if he will still nlove me if I keep it and he said “i dont know”!!! Now that I decided a few days ago I am definitely keeping the baby he is saying if it’s a boy it has to have his first and middle name (he’s the second and wants his son to be the third). I’m annoyed because the man who said he doesn’t want this baby or me is nkw telling me what I have to name my child? He said if it’s a girl I can name it whatever I want but if it’s a boy he wants the name to be Steven and I better not “ruin this for him”. He says I’m being selfish because I’m not compromising. He does stuff like this all the time and truly is a narcissist. He accused me of sleeping around and is totally paranoid even when I spend all my time with him! Even when he’s not home I’m with his family and he still insists on a paternity test!!!!! I just don’t like the name Steven for my baby and do not want to name my child after a man who is kind of an unsupportive and narcissistic asshole! Please! Am I being unfair?! Or screw him and do what I want? I’m about to snap I swear ......