No more testing

I am 46 ttc our 1st. We have had blood work, hsg done and husbands blood work all come out great. All we've been told is to try. Well it is now 13 months and nothing. My husband & I decided that we are not stressing anymore. Gods will is what will be. We will continue the supplements but no more checking on a daily, no more opk and no more stress. Just focus on us, our well being and process of adoption. By no means have we given up. We are just going back to before the stress and giving in to what will be.