Whats wrong with us!

So am 24 and my husband is 25 been together nearly 9 years married nearly 3 and we both want a baby but we hardly ever have sex... I want sex like every other day and am lucky if I get it once a week :( were only young we shouldn't be like this...

Any suggestions on how I can spice things up

We use to use toys and experiment but now it's just a quick in and out not even any foreplay :(