I lost my virginity

I lost my virginity yesterday. Just for you girls who are scared and don’t know what to expect... first off me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 and half years and didn’t have sex until now. I have to say I’m very thankful I waited until now to do it. I feel that you should be serious with your partner and know that they are going to be in your future. Second... I was nervous like nobody’s business. My heart was beating 50 mph and my hands and legs were shaking like crazy, I was so nervous. When he layed me down and started to undress me my nerves got even worse I had to take a breath and try to stay calm. He started to undress and Put on a condom. Third thing to make sure is that your partner try’s his best to relax you and is gentle at first, which my boyfriend was. When it first started to go inside I had lots and lots of pain, I tried to keep myself calm tho still. He was very gentle and when he could tell I was hurting he pulled out and waited for me to tell I was ready again. Then he continued to slide inside me. I repositioned myself and after I did it stopped hurting. Since it was also his first time he cummed within like 4 min after that he put another condom on and we tried lots of different positions. It wasn’t fireworks really or like the movies. But it definitely was intimate when we would just lay beside each other and cuddle close to each other. So all in all that’s my story. Try to stay calm and make sure he is gentle at first Bc it prob will hurt at first.