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I really think it's in our best interest to give the baby up for adoption but in my heart I wish I could keep the baby for 6m and then place it but I know that would be to hard on me . I'm just so so lost
Edit for comments:.  I am 21 with a 5 year old and a 2 year and we have pretty much have an adopted 10y old (his sister) . I feel like I could make things work but I just want the kids to have the best live possible and with another baby I feel like that would set us back. But I know we can give it love and everything else ECT I'm just worried about our liveing situation and how long it would take us to get back on our feet

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Do you mind telling us your age? & if you are able to keep your baby, to make your baby happy not to make yourself happy, then yeah, you should keep your child. The only reason you should be considering adoption for your child is to give your child his/her best chance in life & If that's why you are considering adoption don't feel bad about it. Kids are so precious and they are a gift from God before you make such a hard decision maybe you should find a professional to speak with. My husband & I have been ttc for the past 8 years with no luck. I pray that God helps you & give you comfort in whatever decision you make. Is the father in the picture?

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Hey mama!!
I wanted to reach out and see if you are still looking into adoption? If you are, have you been able to match with someone? If so - congratulations! If not, I’d love to chat more with you! My husband and I are looking to adopt a baby to start our own family!
journeytobabychesser@gmail.com

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I wanted to let you know that I was adopted as a newborn. I have nothing but love and respect for my biological mother. Giving a child up for adoption when you are not ready or able to be a parent is the most loving and selfless thing a person can do. 
My husband and I have been going through infertility for 3 years and have decided we want to adopt. We have our own home, in the suburbs or Pittsburgh, Pa. We have two dogs, Amber and Chloe, who are the light of our lives right now. We both have large families, very close by! My mother in law and brother in law live 5 streets away from my husband and I. 
I am a school nurse in a school for special needs children and my husband, Anthony, is a mortgage officer. We have so much love to give and are ready to open our hearts and home to a child. 
Please contact me, for anything, even if you just need a listening ear, or someone to vent to.

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Have you had any luck finding an adoptive family? My husband and I are looking to adopt.

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My wife and I understand how hard it can be. If you are considering adoption we’re willing to give your baby a loving and supportive home. If you have any questions or contact us please message us. God bless

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Talk to an agency hun, they’ll have counselors there to help you and talk to you so you know your making the right decision...my husband and I just started looking into adopting and plan on going to an agency soon when I talked to the lady on the phone they seem super understanding and I think a local agency near you would be the same way.

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You will be okay :) Just love that baby and you will have given him/her your best

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I would maybe see about therapy to help you with this. They can help you sort out all these thoughts and give you all your options for you to make the best possible choice for your family, including baby.

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