Okay ladies, hear me out. My fiancé and I are getting married next fall and have been together for a couple of years.

I’ve been having some minor issues with my period the last couple of months so I’ve been using the app to keep track of everything. I’ve tracked before I would just have to go back and look at it.

Let me cut to the chase and tell you why I’m posting. Our sex life sucks. In my opinion I mean, I know I’ve read where couples go longer without having sex but it’s really starting to bother me.

We will literally have sex maybe four times a month. Can I just say how unattractive that makes me feel. I’ve told him this and he says he likes making me wait for it, seriously? I told him that was wrong and that I have a problem going into our marriage if he truly thinks like that.

I know it’s something I need to work on so I go to the gym, eat healthy, talk to him about it (I’ve brought it up before), and I’m getting no where.

Any suggestions or ideas ladies?

I love him with all my heart and I know he loves me and we’re both in love. I just don’t understand.

He’s 30 and I’m 28 and I feel like we’re too young to be dealing with this. My next thought is when we’re ready to start having children how will that even work out because he doesn’t even care that it bothers me.

**edit** he is very loving, caring, is there for me emotionally, thoughtful. He does refer us making love and doesn’t like when I say having sex—maybe I expect too much? When we do make love it’s always good. He doesn’t watch porn, I know he doesn’t have any women or any other outlets. I feel like it’s me more than him and maybe I need to let up on him 🙈