Im lost in this partnership

I seriously dont know where to start im getting depressed im always worried one side of me always says i dont need a man the other side is more like i cant do shit if its not one thing it's another idk if im over thinking...

Im 25wks (Due date 01/04/19) pregnant i been having issue with the dad it seems like every time I say something its wrong idk if we r in a relationship now bc we dont have any stability he hast bought shit for this bby im working and buying things on my own. I understand we weren't in a relationship b4 i got pregnant but he sleeps over like 4 times a week i feel like time is ticking i dont have shit for the bby im only buying lil things every now and then i cant deal with this i need help too n i dont see the point of him coming over at night if the doesn't help financially. Im one of those nice people but i really think this is to much i live own my friends ask why he doesn't help out at least to clean the yard and idk what to say bc it seems like the time i asked for a favor n it gets thrown in my face i dont say that to my friends bc i dont want to make it into something big. Everyone ask how come we dont hang out why am i always alone, is he planning to stay with me is going to help out in the winter time bc i live in a state that snows, who is he... They ask if i saved up for after the bby is born i just dont know what to say anymore it makes me think and im getting depressed I even kept my pregnancy a secret from my family bc if my friends ask all of this my family will ask more shit i dont have an answer to. Im trying really hard to save up but we all know we got bills n rent. What do you guys think?