Feel like giving up

We’ve been at it a year and actively trying for 8 months. We’ve tried so much from eating better, to couples vitamins and fertility tea. We had a chemical loss in April. This month my luteal phase was only 10 days. Every day I look at all these forums, see nursery photos and announcements, and get so jealous that I’m posting here and not on those boards. I so feel like giving up. I’m young and know it can take years but it’s so defeating month after month. Going to keep trying but stop all the tracking, tea, etc. I’ll stick to vitamins and trying to eat better. I’m hoping our turn is soon 💔