My damn ob has screwed up for the last damn time!

Mandy • 💏2012 🎀👶🏼1/10/14👼🏻+👼🏻+👼🏻+👼🏻2019👼🏻6/30/19,👼🏻5/31/20

Ok so for those of you have been following me you know I’ve had a lot of issues with my ob office. From then failing to put very important info in my chart to a other in that same office accusing me of lying about being pregnant because their urine test on me was negative but I showed him I’d been getting verrrry positive results and said his test had to be wrong. Then today was the last straw. I went into the er Sunday for badddd back pain and cramping they did an ultrasound and saw a sac but no yolk sac. I went home went to bed and got woke up at 4am by a severe pain in my cervix I got up to use the bathroom thinking maybe I just had to use the bathroom. When I got up I felt wet I checked and it was blood I ran to the bathroom hoping it was just a little spotting but it was everywhere. I sobbed l was a wreck I called my ob as soon as they opened but they couldn’t get me in until 4:20pm wen I went they did an ultrasound and to my shock there was my little one hanging on to life and it was further along as we could see the yolk sac this time and we thought we saw a possible heart beat but it was to faint to catch on doppler but at least we saw it. Then he gave us the bad news that yes the baby was fine but the bleeding was coming from a huge sac of blood and tissue that was positioned behind the baby so In order to come out it’s gotta pass the baby so the doctor said we were going to loose the baby and that he reallllly didn’t feel good about my pregnancy. The thing they did to make me mad was today I’ve been so upset and desperate to do whatever I can to save my baby so I remembered after my first miscarriage in June my usual ob told me next time I get pregnant that I had to come in ASAP to get my hcg checked and then get my progesterone checked to see if that’s why I lost the last baby but since the doctor I went to this time didn’t believe I was actually pregnant he refused to check hcg. Well I remembered that and called today to ask if this is happening now because I may have a low progesterone level and if so can I save it by taking supplements she fuckin told me it’s very possible that’s why this is happening but it’s to late to save it by taking the supplements now and to just remember to ask ti have my levels checked the next time I get pregnant!!! It’d be one thing if I hadn’t asked to get it checked but I did and now I may be losing my baby because of it!!! Also I’ve heard story’s of people starting to bleed and getting their progesterone checked and finding out that’s what’s causing the bleeding and they’re put on the supplements and it saves the baby! I’m so pissed right now and so hurt I just dk what to do