Is this asking to much or am i just being silly🤔

Ok i swear everything we ask of it like to much for my MIL to handle I've told her countless times im breastfeeding and she keeps saying oh well keep the formula (I got some for free from a friend and I was giveing it away on Facebook beacuse i breastfeed my kids due to i have an amazing supply and it's best and it's free so why not) she then goes on to say oh keep it I politely said I don't need it i am breastfeeding she then goes well keep it anyways so my so can help with feedings so I then again tell her I am not going to keep it I exclusively breastfeed I wanna say a week rolls by she then tried to buy a breast pump same thing well this way she goes my so can help with feedings now I've already told her as well the week or so prior i do not pump due to i make to much milk and again politely told her no I am breastfeeding well I posted the rules for when our daughter is born and of course she had something to say about it

The post that was made⏬⏬⏬

Ok because she could be here any day we would just like to make this very clear if you are going to come see her at the hospital or after we get home please follow these rules Unless you are Chris or myself none and i do mean none will be kissing her it's cold and flu season hand foot and mouth and strep throat season and other kinds of germ's hands and cloths needs to be clean before asking to hold her if you show up smelling like ciggaretts you will not be holding her at all just wait until you leave to smoke and no pictures until we post pictures of her if you do take pictures you need to ask first before takeing and you need to ask before posting pictures of her please and thank you and if you do plan to come up you need to message text or call us first please do not just show up this apply's to everyone and anyone we will let everyone know when people can come up this is why we are asking people to message or text before you want to come up and we ask you not be wearing any types of perfumes or colognes because her skin may not like it she maybe allergic to it or her skin may break out from it

My MIL then replied with people wanna share your excitement and happiness their is a very big reason why I I said no pictures or if they do take them ask before you take and ask before you post I don't need everyone seeing pictures of my kids my Facebook is very private and idk everyone on her friends list and due to safety reasons I don't need people knowing when I'm in the hospital so they know I won't be home for a few days and not everyone needs to know what hospital I am at due to an order of protection against my oldest father I don't need him or his family finding out when i have this baby and then try to take my oldest son he's done it before so that's why that rule is in place and as many of you know if someone posted something and a friend of a friend likes it it can infact pop up on your wall but litterly everything we have said or asked she's always got something to say like hello this is not your child I know why she keeps pushing bottle feeding it's because she wants to watch the baby but my so and I have already discussed untill she can not feel the need to need to drink beer beacuse she's infact an alcoholic and she smokes inside until she can not drink and not need to buy 2_3 18 packs of beer a day and can quit smokeing she's not going to be watching her along with her house her house ia nasty like the floors turn your feet black and her whole house reeks of dog and ferret she's also nailed all the windows shut so you can't even air her house out she dosen't listen to anything at all and she's also very forgetful due to her being an alcoholic that's my other concern as well with her babysitting that's never gonna happen