I don’t want to tell anyone if I’m expecting

Okay so I had my daughter 4 months ago 12 weeks premature. I had an extremely rough, complicated pregnancy and there was a lot of talk about my baby or me not making it.

I MIGHT be pregnant with number 2 (it’s too soon to tell for sure) and the potential pregnancy was unintentional. I don’t believe in plan B or abortion for myself.

If I am pregnant again I do NOT want to tell anybody (family and close friends included) because of the risks to me and the baby this time around. I would rather just announce that baby is born healthy (I have high hopes pregnancy 2 goes better).

What do you guys think about this? Am I selfish for wanting to keep it to myself? I fully expect family might be a bit angry that I didn’t tell them.

I’m going to be anxious and stressed enough without people judging me and constantly asking me questions.

This will be my final pregnancy because 3 different obs recommended I don’t have anymore babies after the second one due to the life threatening risks to me and baby. I will be getting a partial hysterectomy.