Does this make me a bad mom?

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Okay so I’m currently 31 weeks pregnant as of today and me and my daughters father decided to have a talk about visitation since we’re currently separated. I told him I have to be at his house while my kid is there because me and the people he live with have a bad history and I don’t trust them being around my kid. That somehow set him off and he got all pissy with me saying “fuck it let her stay there with you then”. The reason why I don’t trust the people at his house, they’ve always hated me, they let marijuana get blown into a baby’s face and thought it was funny, when I was 16 weeks pregnant they put laxatives in my drink in hopes i would miscarry. So yeah I think I have more than enough reason to not trust them around my kid. My question is, does this make me a bad mom for wanting to be wherever my daughter is? If it helps, I’m 17 and that’s probably why my thinking is off but idk I just need someone else’s opinion.

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No, you're being a great mom by not allowing her to be near those people without you.

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Yea do not let them be alone with your baby. That doesn’t make you a bad mom that makes you a responsible mom

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Thank you for not allowing your child to be alone in that type of environment. You are completely in the right.

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No, you are following your momma bear instincts. They’ve already threatened not only you, but your baby once, you’re not providing them the opportunity to do it again.

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Deffantly not why would you want your kid around that mess I sure as shit would not

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You’re already protecting your baby by wanting to set those boundaries. I’d say he’s lucky you’re even willing to have the baby at his place with those people. Tell him his other option is only being able to see it elsewhere, not around those types of people.  A good dad to be should also be understanding of that.

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I wouldn't take the baby there at all, and if he's okay with that happening I would question if the kid should even be around him honestly.

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After that I wouldnt have even discussed visitation lol

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You go mama! There’s something wrong with him if he doesn’t see that! Stick to your guns and protect that sweet baby!

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Insane they put laxatives in your drink you. That is beyond evil and def an assault on you and your unborn baby. You do what you need to you do for you and that baby. People are sick and you need to stick to your guns. Praying for the best🙏🏾

Does this make me a bad mom?

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