I want another baby, a big family. He doesnt. Dealbreaker?

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No,  i bet you're with ur partner  for more reasons than just his sperm.

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You’d be willing to put the kids you already have thru divorce because you want another kid...? 🤔

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That's something only  YOU can decide...
But honestly this should have been talked about WAY WAY WAY before you got serious. 🤷🏽‍♀️

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No.
I wanted another baby,
My wife didn’t.
So we compromised and didn’t have a baby 😂😂
We have four kids, that’s enough ..
I would never leave her because she doesn’t want ANOTHER kid.

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Compromise and get a puppy.  Just like having another child.

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The compromise is to not have another baby. Only you know if this means you’d want a divorce. For me, if I have at least one, I’ll be happy.

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It doesn't seem worth putting existing children through a divorce over but it's your call. For me it's not a deal breaker. I want 2 kids my husband wants 1. I'll settle for 1. :)

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No. I wouldn't break my family only because I wanted another baby.

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Yes and no it all depends on the situation, I always wanted 4 kids my husband wants 2-3 now after infertility if we can have 4 I’m sure we will but we fought about the amount we wanted I said I can’t be with someone who doesn’t want a large family but we got to a point where we just decided to see how it all plays out as long as I get at least 2-3 I’m happy who know maybe the first  2-3 to will bring me to the brink of insanity and I refuse to have more.

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Nope. You’d put your kids through a divorce because of wanting more is just telling them that they themselves are not enough for you. Not okay in my book. My husband would be perfectly fine if my daughter(not his biologically) ended up being our only. We decided to have one, and are pregnant now. This will be our last because I said I don’t want to be pregnant again. He said he’d like one more, but only if we both agree in a few years. I’d never leave him just because we have that small difference of opinion. I love him, he loves me, and our family is happy.

I want another baby, a big family. He doesnt. Dealbreaker?

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