My man doesn’t want me anymore?

Ok ladies lay the honest truth on me. Is it a thing for your man to only want you when he initiates sex? I swear my guy is only in the mood when I’m not, and when I want to initiate it he doesn’t want to. Is like a power and control thing for them to be the seducer instead of the seducee? It’s been a few weeks now and before when I haven’t wanted to do it for a few days it becomes an issue because he wants it so we compromise and I use my hand or something but when I’m turned on and want it he’s not interested. Help a sister out! We haven’t gone this long without making love before and now I’m thinking it’s because I’m the one initiating it instead of him.

Edit: we’ve been together for a little over 2 years now and are getting married in a year.