Should I ask him?

Question

My husband asked me if he could go midnight fishing with his cousin Saturday which of course I said yes. Well I went on his messages to get an address because we just moved out of Texas and they aren’t going fishing they are actually gonna be camping and drinking beer. I was kinda upset he lied because we never do anything together & I understand I couldn’t go at first because they will be on a small boat. But they aren’t even gonna be fishing and now I have to sit at his grandmas boring house for a night while he is having fun. Should I be mad? Should I ask why did he lie?

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So guys do this weird thing where they will say part of the story. Don't get upset, instead ask him why didn't he mention he was going to also be going camping.

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I kinda feel like midnight fishing and setting up camp go hand in hand, so try not to be too upset. Maybe talk to him if you felt he had ill intentions in excluding that part....but....men. Lol! They don’t communicate like we do!

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Maybe the original plan was fishing, and it still is? Im sure they need camping gear in case they get tired and want to sleep? Idk id be upset if u find out my husband was intentionally lying, but I'm sure it's not intended. Ask him for sure!

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So if he’s not fishing why can’t you go?

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Sounds like to me he didnt tell you the full story they could be camping and fishing.. I would just tell him that you were looking for the address and saw that they're just going camping, tell him that he doesnt have to lie at all, you'll be happy for him either way, if he just wants a guys weekend thats okay too..just don't lie about it. He probably did it because he didnt want to hurt your feelings in which he did anyway.

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Fishing and beer drinking go hand in hand when it’s a couple of men.  When I go fishing with my partner and his friends there is always beer available.  
Given that this is midnight fishing and one typically only fishes for a couple of hours or so, where do you want him to sleep afterwards?  Do you want him to drive home drunk?  Or would you prefer that they do the responsible thing and sleep the drinks off?  Even if my partner wasn’t drinking I wouldn’t want him driving home at 4am.  
I’m pretty sure while he is midnight fishing you will probably be in bed getting a good nights rest and not staying up with poor old boring grandma.  
Pick your battles wisely.  This shouldn’t be one of them.

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If he had asked to just go camping and drink beer would you have let him?

Should I ask him?

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