Should I be annoyed?

My brother and I have always been a little competitive. He's always gotten a lot of attention from my parents growing up and maybe he just need a little more support from them than me but so be it. I'm 21 and married and I have an 8 month old son and my brother is almost 26 and just got married. Since I was pregnant with my son my brother has been complaining almost like a child that he "isn't the favorite anymore" and he's the type of person who tries to joke around but he means what he says so I got mad because he just wouldn't stop talking about how he wasn't going to be the favorite person in the family anymore. Stupid right. Anyways. Since I've had my son my brother has never asked once to hold him. He never texted or called when I had A C SECTION and to this day he has never texted or called me asking about his own and ONLY nephew. What's even more odd is that his wife, A BABY NURSE, never asks to hold him, never comments on our pictures or even likes them. They both just ignore the fact that they have a nephew basically.

This weekend they are coming to visit her brother who surprisingly lives in the same tiny town as us and they aren't going to stop and say hi OR EVEN LET US KNOW THEYRE COMING. I heard it from my mom today that they'll be in town for 3 days only visiting her brother. We probably live 2 minutes from her brother because of how small our town is.

What the hell is their problem!? I just want my son to know his ONLY uncle and not be treated like an outcast. I'm so mad and if they don't say anything to us all weekend (which will likely happen) I might just go off.

Also, my husband and I asked if we could stay with them ONE night last month when we were in their city for a funeral and my brother said "let me ask my wife" he then told me that we can't because his wife works night shift and she has to sleep all day and that he works.? Everyone on this planet has to work I'm not asking you to go to Disneyland I'm asking if we can use your guest room dumbass.

K rant over. Would you guys be pissed!?