How to spice things up?

Question

Me and my boyfriend have frequent sex which satisfies me enough, but I still feel like I need/want more from it. I don’t know how to talk to him about spicing things up without it getting awkward or weird. I’d personally like him to be more rough which I feel like he would be into but idk and I don’t really want to ask? Also I don’t know how to propose trying new positions. Advice please !!

Answer

I think we can rule out that he has the ability to read your mind. So the only way is for you to tell him is to communicate with him. And that is not a bad idea. You can solve a lot of issues by communicating with your partner
There are many ways to do that, tell/ask him, write a note/email/text, watch a movie and when you see something you like, tell him that you want to try that. You can ask I for it during sex (faster, harder or whatever other instructions), or you can discuss it some other time (“I hope you do not think that I am a freak, but I was wondering if we can try rougher sex. You do not have to worry about me. I will tell you if it is too rough”).
You can also just get on top and show him. There are so many positions with you on top that you can try. And when you are on top, you control how rough it gets. You can even take his hands and put them where you want them and squeeze them to show him what you want. And you may find that the control you have when you are on top will give you mind blowing orgasms.

How to spice things up?

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