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so my bf wants to try anal with me. i’ve never done it and he has. i’m scared. i’ve heard horror stories basically. any tips? i want to make him happy so obviously i’m willing to try but i also heard it hurts soo bad and i don’t want to ruin it for him.

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Lube lots and lots of lube! And start off super super slow :)

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Don’t do it unless you want to especially not just to make him happy. He has normal regular sex with you that should make him happy enough!

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Thats how i was. I could never trust anybody with that ever. Until i met my husband. He was so respectful. Hes also very curious and started small. Never asked for anything. Just let me decide. Like just kind of putting his hands down there as an option. If i did nothing he wouldve moved away. I pressed into it tho cause i did like it. That was a real easy way for me to tell that i was interested...so you could try something like that..? Let his try with his fingers or his tongue and if thats not interesting to you then end it there. 
We never planned on going any farther than fingers and tongue. But one night i had some mikes hard lemonaide and felt a little more daring.(another thing to consider- dont be too drunk that your floppy and cant control your body...but a little buzz may help if you drink) We used coconut oil for lube😂😂 (i hate lube so thats all we had around) and he made sure to be very very gentile on his way in. (The only position i can do it in so far is missionary with me on bottom....im not sure why...maybe a control thing? Cause doggy style i feel like i cant control how it goes in...idk. Just something to think about) and he just kind of let me do what i wanted. The first few times you try it, its really not about him at all. Hes just there while you get used to it lol. But i get really sensitive after i finish. So anytime i say were done,(in there at least) were done. Cause then things hurt. Make sure hes ready for you to randomly say no more.  
Sorry if this is too much detail or wierd to read...i just know every guy that ever asked for it, was the last guy i trusted to try that out with. So make sure hes willing to be patient and go the speed you want, or completely abort if you change your mind. Be safe. Careful with cross contamination. And dont do anything if you arent comfortable. ESPECIALLY not if you feel like hes pressuring you. Those horror stories are true. But they only happen when people are careless.

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My gay friend he told me that you have to have  a bowel movement prior. That way you won’t end up having one on his dick. Trust me I ended up having one, & it was sooo embarrassing. I definitely agree to the lots of lube, & going slow.

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Want a useful tip? Don’t do it, it hurts so bad😂😂

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Please don’t do it, having sex with him is pleasing him enough

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If you don't wanna don't do it. If you get scared moment you feel his tip near your ass you better tell him not to go in and if he doesn't listen fight him off.
Anyway get some gloves and lube your fingers up and maybe try to prepare your booty yourself for anal. Start with one finger and go from there gives you a good chance to clean your tushie too lol. May be gross but you can test your pain limits with your fingers first.

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Go slow. Start off with him fingering your butthole and then ease  into it. Lots of lube. Relax.the more tense you are the more it will hurt.

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