So fed up with my mom

Ever since I was living with my family as I child she will complain about everything I did, fast forward years later i get married and move out to another country, she will call me ONLY if she needed money or stuff for me to send them, I always did what they told me I did send her money and stuff they asked but they will never say thank you or even call me to just talk, 10 years later is the same thing I got used to it being “used” until my moms side of her family like her sisters would call me saying why I don’t help my mom with money or why I don’t send them stuff, I was like “WTF?!? Really after all those years my mom has being telling them I have NEVER send her anything or even help her with money?” I once told my mom that we were having financial problems and all my mom said “that’s what happens because you don’t help us” I literally send a lot of money on her last year and this year and she still says I don’t send Shit, I have to do scarifies for me to be able to send her money and stuff when they asked while my husband and my kids don’t even have food on the table, I told that to my parents and still they say “that’s because you don’t help us”, I just can’t believe my mom would like to my family like that’s SHE KNOWS I’ve been sending her money and things she asks me to send them, when I ask her to send my kids things form their country she won’t because I have to send extra money for her to buy them and I have to send extra for her to send them to me en extra money for her to eat something on the way all that she wants it’s Money money and money, I have come to conclusion that she doesn’t love me, nor my kids, the only way for her to call me or even ask how we are if I send her money, I’m tired I feel betrayed and all I wish is good luck to my sister because she’s currently going through that too only difference is that she has always being their special girl so all they say she does Were are not the only kids we are 5 siblings. “Update on my sister” she’s having a baby and have told my parents she won’t be able to send them any more money because she needs it for her baby and they’re pissed. And at me too because they think I’m telling my sister not to help them anymore. So disappointed, I just can’t believe those are my parents, were is the love?