What is wrong with me??

I’ve been having sex for about two years now and before that I had been masturbating since I was 11/12. Anyway, for as long as I can remember I never get wet no matter how turned on I am. This has been a problem for me recently as I am now in a relationship where we have lots of sex but the fact that I don’t get wet enough ruins the mood for both me and my bf. After a while it just starts to feel uncomfortable and my bf just gets self conscious because he thinks it’s him and I’m not sexually attracted to him. We obviously use lube more since I can’t get naturally wet but I was wondering if anyone deals with this? What do you do to help it besides lube.