His wife contacted me wth !

Sorry long story short I was dating a guy about 5 years ago long distance and he proposed to me but it seemed like he was stalling when it came to setting a date and wasn’t quite ready to make the change so I ended it. 6 months after he contacts me and I find out he’s dating but he says he’s still in love with me and he told his current girl he was still in love with me before they started dating and she agreed to date him still in hopes of helping him get over me ... fast forward they’ve been married for 3 yrs now but he was so depressed he married her he ended up in the hospital for 3 days. He recently contacted me to say he wish he would’ve not be scared to follow his heart back then and wants to leave his wife oh and let me add he sent me over 50 messages and she read all of them mmhmm drama .. newho he says he wants to leave her because he can’t go on not having the life he dreamed of with me plus I believe he had pressure to Marry her because she was all into church and at the time I was just getting into church. I told him to stay with her and ignored his messages and he even gave up his fb and IG pass codes to her to prove he was talking to me anymore but all he did was start to email me 🤦🏾‍♀️ now I get a damn iG message from her talking about can I stop contacting her husband wtf ! Girl your husband keep contacting me all day and night up until 4 am so don’t bother me with that shit ! I’m so annoyed because I didn’t do anything wrong he did