Wants me to abort

I have been seeing this guy for 9 months in the beginning we spoke about having a child together as friends i have 3 he has none he is 31 and im 29..his reasons were because he didnt want to be an old dad n he may never get that chance and i agreed because i wanted another child....i fell pregnant soon after he was estatic..we both were but unfortunately we lost that baby in april...we both agreed to try again...i fell pregnant again 2 months ago..everything was going fine..he came with me to our first scan n admitted he almost cried...fast forward to last week he sent me a msg saying we were better off being the best of friends and he was going thru depression and wanted to do this journey on his own and that he'll be there for his child and for me...i was confused so i asked if that meant i wasnt going to do this pregnancy on my own n he said that he wanted to be there for the scans..i bit my tongue and agreed.

For the last few days he has barely spoken to me and then today sent me a msg telling me that his thought this thru and wants me to have an abortion as he wasnt thinking straight and doesnt want me to be raising another child without a father and also that his met someone and it wouldnt be fair to her or me...

Im at a loss..im hurt that he even asked that of me and now i dont know what to do.....please some advice n support would be nice...