My husband's "kink" ...?

Question

I love my husband and would almost do anything for him, but I really need help on this. Advice? 
We've been married three years, and have a two year old daughter. Out of nowhere my husband told me he wants to watch me have sex with another man. He said he thinks it would be hot and he wants to 'double stuff' me. And join in. It's his fantasy. And he keeps asking me about it. I explained to him that I can't do that. That I feel like it would be cheating and wouldn't enjoy it. It scares me and I'm very shy as it is. 
Are there any alternatives to meet him in the middle with this? We have sex toys he uses during sex, so maybe something we can meet in the middle over? 
Advice is greatly appreciated please?

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If its a definite no for you then you shouldn't need to negotiate. Just say no, final answer. Don't be pressured into doing something you dont want to, thats not what love is. And later if you're interested open up the conversation again and see what he thinks about it then.

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If it’s absolutely not something you’d be into or comfortable with, then don’t do it.  If it’s something you could get interested in after a lot of questions are answered, then maybe take that opportunity to ask away and see if you like the answers.  Does he want to join? Watch? Has he thought about the feelings he may have afterwards,etc?  - But if it’s an absolute no go for you, then don’t even give it another thought and let your husband no this isn’t at all something you’re willing to do.

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if you want to meet in the middle i would try having a threesome with a girl wearing a strap on lol. but for real you need to be more honest and negotiate your boundaries with him.

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There are machines you can buy that will basically fuck you lol. Like, you just stick a dildo on the end of it and you can control the speed and stroke length. Maybe that would satisfy his "craving" without you needing to bring someone else into the picture?

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double Stuffing like DP or more like 'slopy seconds'? If it's DP just buy a toy, if it's slopy seconds just but a toy that can Squirt 'cum'lube in you. Some men love the idea of their lovedones being desired by others, it makes you more desirable! But don't do another man if you don't want to! there are toys to simulate almost any situation! even maniquin men! I know BadDragon sells dildo's that can squirt cumlube in you if your man wants a 'slopy second' cream filled pie ;)

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Can just fantasise it together?

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That is my fantasy But my husband would never go for it

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He can still double stuff you. He can wear a strap on or hold a dildo in his hands. Or you can suction one to the floor and fuck that one vaginally while he does anal. 
Double stuffing has endless possibilities without having another living man!

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Not something I would want but neither would my bf.  But I know people who do.   Safe, sane and consensual.

My husband's "kink" ...?

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