My First Time

I am so scared about losing my v-card. I am about to get married and we have a very open communication on sex. We both decided to wait till marriage so we can have a closer bond and have it be something we share as partners. I am just worried of how bad it will hurt and if I will bleed. Please let me know if your first times hurt or just how they went. Also, I basically always use tampons so I’m not sure if that will make it a little better or not, probably not, but it’s worth a shot to ask. Thanks again girls, xo