When will sex become enjoyable and not hurt so bad?

Question

I’m only 16, don’t judge please. But sex always just hurts me sooo bad. I still do it. But like even when guys rub my clit. It just hurts and I always want to stop. I know for some women, they have a condition and it’s literally unbearable for them. How can I make it not hurt so much?

Answer

It is understandable when it hurts the first few times, as you are being stretched, rubbed and poked in places that was hidden and protected until now. But after a few times it should be pleasurable or neutral at best. It should not be painful and hurt.
From what you are describing, you are either not ready and aroused and wet when you start, or you have a condition like a hymen that did not tear or stretche, vulvadynia or vaginitis. But it is not possible to make a diagnosis on here. You should really see a doctor.

Answer

Honestly happened to me ALL the time with my ex fiance from 19 to 21 (engaged at 21). Now, I know 1) he was just way too big for me 2) even though I was "wet" or aroused, I kept thinking about it hurting so I think that had something to do with it. I turned myself off. 
Now, 25. My boyfriend is way more my type. And I even though I hate him one day and love him the next. I REALLY love him. Its the way they have sex with you. It's the passion for me. 
It always hurts if I don't care about the guy the way I should. That and their skills. And my clit does NOTHING for me

Answer

Take longer time with foreplay, make sure you’re completely relexed and turned on, if you are it shouldn’t be so painful🤔 maybe use some lube aswell

When will sex become enjoyable and not hurt so bad?

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