HELP! I DON’T WANT MY SUGAR DADDY TO SCAM ME!!
Before I start if ur gonna try and scold me for having a sugar daddy u can exist stage left.
This is my very first time having one even tho I’ve always been curious about the whole sugar daddy/sugar baby thing. Just so u know, this is a PLATONIC relationship! He’s also currently in the UK for work. But my SD had me make an account with Discover Bank so I can get my allowance but here’s the thing. Yesterday was the first day that I actually got money and was able to spend it. But here’s two things that sketched me out.
One, to add the $1,500, he wanted me to give him my user and password, which I reluctantly did. But after he’s done I change the password. I really don’t want him logging in tho. I don’t want him to see my personal information, like my address or how exactly I’m spending his money. He’s always insisting that he won’t do anything and that everything is secure but I don’t trust him. Is there another way for him to send it because he doesn’t seem to understand where I’m coming from and how do I say it so he’ll agree?
Two, when I was shopping yesterday he wanted me to buy google play gift cards. When he mentioned this to me yesterday I was furious with him and threatened to leave him. I even had him send me a picture of his passport. He told me that he needed the cards for his clients in Asia and he wanted me to get it because I’m his SB. He made it seem like no one in the US could buy it since google play only works in the country u live at. What does it mean when they ask of this? After I basically cussed at him the first time he asked I did it because at first he wanted me to get $500 worth of cards and I said no until he went down to $200 worth of cards. Then after I did that he wanted me to get $500 worth and this time he said I could mix it up with iTunes which was a red flag (i already had/still have red flags up). The only reason I did it was because i saw nothing was done to the account (I wasn’t worried about there not being enough money for me cuz there was more than enough) I also made him promise not to ask that question, with him knowing if he did then I’ll leave him.
How do I change this situation so that I know I’m safe and nothing down the line falls on me? What does everything he’s doing mean? I still feel like he’s a scammer for some reason or he’s not being honest about something. Also, he wanted to add more money today and he said he needed the card number because the transaction needed to be confirmed (I of course told him no). Sidenote he also said he loves me which threw me the hell off😩😂

Edit: reading through the messages and no I haven’t met him yet I know he’s real tho cuz of the passport he sent and I spent a good amount of the money already so I feel like I can’t go to the police about it. He said that he needed the cards to get bitcoin 🤔
Edit 10/5: he told me to send him this info after finally getting him to listen when I said I don’t feel comfortable letting him know my user and password.. wtf is wrong with him??!

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