Orgasm

So I’m 18 years old I’ll be 19 in November and I guess basically I just want to know if they’re other women who just like me. Struggle to reach the big “O” . Oral doesn’t do it for me either, don’t get me wrong I’ve had some great great sex but not enough to push me over the cliff. I feel like I’ve tried every method. Different types of stimulation. I even tried this oil that is supposed to make your vagina and clit more sensitive but it made my area too sensitive. I can’t give myself orgasms, I have a pretty strong vibrator, and it feels amazing ! But I just don’t get there. And when I try to masturbate by hand I don’t feel comfortable and it doesn’t feel “good” .

If there’s anyone who experiences the same thing and has had success let me fucking know! I’ll try anything and everything at this point