Am i wrong to be freaked out?

Question

Hey, so last night i was very very VERY drunk. Myself and my boyfriend went to my friends and had drinks. I was paraletic, couldnt speak, could barley walk. Got in tbe house and my boyfriend STILL had sex with me. I remember laying there unable to say anything and just thinking 'whats going on'. All i wanted was to be cuddled in to sleep. I'm now freaked about it. He saw the state i was in and he still had sex with me in a state like that. Am i over thinking it??

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What I would do, but you choose for yourself. 
If he was my boyfriend whom I trusted and cared for I would first talk to him about it. Given my state I would give him the benefit of the doubt that he thought I consented but would listen to him. Then I would standup for myself and explain my side and explain how I do not want him doing that to be ever again in that state. If he ever made me feel uncomfortable or going forward did it again I would break it off.

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I mean .. how long have you been together? Was he also drunk? It’s odd that you couldn’t walk or talk but you remember wondering what was going on? Maybe you were more into it then you remember? I would just tell him you’re bugged out about the entire night and go from there.

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That was rape.

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I think it depends on your relationship. How long you’ve been together, how comfortable you guys are together etc.   If my husband did that it wouldn’t bother me but I can see it bothering somebody in a different situation.

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If you’re drunk you can’t consent. PERIOD. If it’s not a yes, it’s a no

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Throw the whole boyfriend out.

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Well was your boyfriend really drink too?

Am i wrong to be freaked out?

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