I’m saving for a mortgage and my family know. Every month someone calls me can you borrow me this can you borrow me that. It’s really starting to grate one my I’m absolutely sick of taking my savings out to bail people out every bloody month. And sometimes they don’t pay me back they say can I pay you back next week or I have to take time out my weekend and drive to their house and pick up the money bear in mind I work 7 days a week :(