thicker girl dating a skinny guy. What should I do?

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hi guys! so I’m a thicker girl, I weigh about 140 and I’m 5’7. My boyfriend is 120 ish and is about 5’9. ( he’s 16, I’m 15) and i keep worrying that he’ll find me unattractive because I’m heavier. He calls me beautiful and everything but like I feel like one day he will leave me because I’ve been told “no one will ever love me) because I was a heavier girl when I was young. I have a pudge in my stomach and idk whenever my boyfriend touches me I feel like he won’t want me bc of my weight (even though he doesn’t know my weight) and my stomach. Does anyone relate to this?? What should I do?? What do you guys think?

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Girl...I’m 203 and my boyfriend is like 160. Weight doesn’t matter if you’re happy!

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That’s super not big of a deal... especially since he’s clearly happy about it!
Take it from me- I’ve been with my husband for almost 20 years. We met in elementary school and started dating in high school.
He’s seen me at my lowest weight and my highest weight, between the two there are 100 pounds and he has never loved me one bit less either way.
You’re beautiful how you are, and if you have a boyfriend who tells you that, trust him.

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I started dating my bf at 14( he was 15) and he was a good 100 lbs lighter than me. 5 years later and he still thinks I’m beautiful❤️ this photo is like 2 years old but 🤷🏻‍♀️

If someone sees you for only your weight and not everything else you are, that is not the type of person you need in your life❤️

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I’m literally 5’7 and 140 and I don’t find myself heavy... maybe you’re being to hard on yourself. You look beautiful... love your body ❤️

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Girl you're beautiful don't worry about that! I'm 269 pounds (5'7) and my bf is 170ish (6'4) and we don't even think of weight and he loves my body. Weight doesn't matter as long as your healthy and you guys love each other. Go on with your bad self!💃

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My fiance is 5'10 and maybe 160lbs. I am 5'7 and like 230lbs. I use to worry the same when we first started dating (we were your age, we are 20 now). But it doesnt bother him. He tells me he prefers that I have my squish. He can't imagine me without it. 
You also need to remember, he found you attractive. That's why he wanted to date you. If he didnt find you attractive, you wouldnt be dating. So he knew going in that you weren't crazy skinny or anything like that and he was fine with it. Hes with you now, so try not to worry about it too much.

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Girl, you're fine and believe him! He wouldn't give you any physical affection if he wasn't attracted to you.

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I'm 170lb. I'm 5 feet 8 and 1/2 inches. My fiancee weighs about 155lb and is 6foot 2 inches. I'm thick and he is very thin. We've been together since April of 2014. We're getting married in March of 2019 and we're expecting our second child in July of 2019. He has never cared about my weight, he thinks I'm beautiful no matter what. I was 155lb when we got together and he was 180lb. We've both fluctuated a lot in the past few years. When you care for someone enough, their weight wont change anything.

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My fiancé is 6’4 175 lbs and I’m 5’7 was 204 when we first got together and I’m now 194! Don’t feel bad having a little weight over him if he loves you or won’t matter!

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Lmfao. I’m 220 and my husband is 130! I was about 160 when we first got together when I was 15 and he doesn’t love me any different.

thicker girl dating a skinny guy. What should I do?

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