Can’t decide

I know this is a bet personal question for everyone but I’m having a huge dilemma in my head. Hoping maybe someone can give me any kind of advice. Anyhow. I have a little one she’s 10 m old and we’re planning for another one. But. I am not a person who wants to be. Sahm for like till my kids go to school. I’m already feeling like I’m going nuts staying home and not working. Now my dilemma is that since we’re a military family I feel like my kiddo needs a sibling, a friend about the same age who is always there even tho we are always moving. But I’d also kinda wanna go to work again soon but there’s really no point to go to work for a year and then shave another baby. So I don’t know what to do lol. I know anyone can’t answer this question but I would like some opinions about this so it would maybe help me decide this. Thanks !!